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Sometimes we meet those special people, that attract us, that make us curious. Being in their presence makes us feel something special, something unlike the ordinary, some people just seem to come into our lives with magic. And most often right here comes in the conditioning. It says: “Oooh you are special, I like you, let’s get laid”. And here I have to come in and tell you: “Don’t listen to this voice”. Don’t listen to it, because in most cases it is mere conditioning that has nothing to do with what is really happening. In most cases, we...read more
So many women are completely disconnected from their yoni. bhv gThis can be noticed even by the way a woman is walking down the street, how she is talking and holding herself. Because when we are disconnected from our yoni we are also disconnected from our feminine essence. In that lack of relationship of course we are not abfdxle to communicate to our partner what truly feels delicious to our yoni. When in fact all women have a guru between their legs! And the sooner we discover it, the better. Actually the yoni has much to tell you, and...read more
My life has been all about journeys into the unknown new lands. Traveling to different countries I start from a point in time in which I know myself, even if just for a second… yet each time I end somewhere completely new. Each meeting becomes a journey. And it doesn’t matter if it’s a new person in my life or somebody I’ve known for years. Tuning in from spaciousness, I open up to the journey that our spirits came together for and the miracle that’s before me to reveal her/himself. Every time I make love it’s...read more
You entered my life without any consideration about my plans, my excitement about single life and superficial connections. You entered with a full yes, full commitment to stay through whatever comes. Who am in front of that commitment? How does it make me feel to be chosen in my entirety? It makes me drop into a very soft place inside myself… and from there… I hear parts of me yelling: “SOS, we don’t want to die. Let us live a little longer. Pretty, please.” And then I hear myself say: “Well, you don’t know who you are dealing with,...read more
What image do you see when you think of sex? Maybe it’s all about thrusting, sweating, pumping and humping. Then reaching a peak (hopefully), cuddling a little (maybe), smoking a cigarette and falling asleep. This is a mainstream view of sex, this is what we learn from movies, porn and other “sexual education sources” available out there. And orgasm is imagined to be that intensely pleasurable peak few seconds, when you burst and squeeze your body followed by a release. What most people associate with sexuality, with erotic and therefore with orgasm is really only a tiny little fraction...read more
Women… they will feed you with their “I don’t know” and “maybe”… Women… will confuse you with their changing nature… Women… will make you feel like you are losing your ground… They will test you, drive you nuts, encourage you, discourage you, blow you open, shut you off, demand attention, bitch around, come with an earthshaking gift… But women will rarely tell you what they want. Not because we want to hide it. But because our deepest desire is not intellectual. Deep down women want one thing. We want your masculinity. We want your depth. ...read more
Do you ever feel as if no man can handle you? It is something that I hear a lot from women I work with. I used to feel that way about myself too. Sometimes as women we feel so emotional, so full of desire, so intense, so powerful… And when we share it, or give a little hint of what is going on inside of us… it sometimes intimidates others. They may tell us they are overwhelmed. They may even tell us that we are too much… And then we might go into blaming ourselves: “I am too much. I should...read more
Fall… Fall and fear not to touch the ground. The ground does not exist. Because in reality you are falling upwards. You are falling back into yourself. My being is in a state of continuous expansion. My consciousness is spread over vastness that feels like the galaxy. My body is constantly turned on without a specific reason. I am experiencing multiple full body orgasms every day even when I don’t have sex. Just an innocent touch of a man makes me suffocate of ecstasy. I feel fear creeping in. Fear to get lost to this incredible...read more
That endless thirst to be desirable, to be attractive… Sexuality is the main driving force on this planet. Try to argue with that: almost everything we do in life is about being attractive. People buy expensive clothes, cars, get tanned, do sports, perform plastic surgery, spend thousands on cosmetics… all to get laid! 🙂 Since early age we try to figure out: how to be attractive, how to attract the perfect partner. We try different things: some try people pleasing, others play “treat them mean – keep them keen”… We try to figure out...read more
A lover told me once: “there are many things I admire about you, but what turns me on the most is your confidence and trust. This is just so fucking sexy”. Trust can take many shapes. It can look like self confidence, a certain way of speaking, moving and holding ourselves. It can look like integrity. Like dignity. It can even look like pride. But all that only for a second reflects the essence of real trust. The real trust is about opening to life. It’s about loving life. Having a deep vision of this reality....read more